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For anyone who might have entertained the notion — however fleetingly — of applying to be on a reality show, let Bachelorette contestant Wes Hayden's experiences serve as a cautionary tale. Hayden, a Texan country singer who exited the show last week after being portrayed as an opportunist with a girlfriend (and all-around jerk) in the quest for Jillian Harris's affections on ABC's The Bachelorette 5, has broken the first covenant of reality television: Never talk about what actually happened.
I knew everything was going to be alright when the bird crapped on my shoulder the day before the proposal. But let's back up a bit. We flew from Maui to Kona for the final leg of this journey. Jillian had narrowed it down to her final two, Ed and Kiptyn. Despite the emotional breakup with Reid, Jillian was feeling pretty good about the situation. Now I don't want to bore you by going back over all the details of this episode, so I'm going to give you my opinion of what went down and why. I know it might sound weird but Jillian had love for each of these guys. If life and love was purely about a physical attraction Kiptyn would've easily been the one. That's not to say they didn't have an emotional connection too, but Jillian didn't see growing old with him and that was big for her. While Ed was dancing around Hawaii in shorts that wouldn't fit my 7-year-old and Kiptyn was flexing his abs, Reid was desperately trying to get a hold of producers. As you heard him say on the Final Rose special, he felt there was something still there between he and Jillian, and he was willing to go all the way to prove it. I have to give the guy credit — this was a bold, brave move. As you could clearly see by the look on her face, Jill had absolutely no idea Reid was coming back.
Allowing Reid to come back was a very tough decision for us to make. This final day is always an emotional roller coaster for all of us. After a long haul, Jillian had mentally prepared herself to break up with Kiptyn and choose Ed. Throwing Reid back into the equation was very risky. We had no idea how Jillian would react and what this would do to her final decision. We were all really flying by the seat of our pants on this one. We knew that both Kiptyn and Ed had rings and were prepared to get down on one knee, and as far as TV goes that was more than enough to successfully wrap up this season. But just like you saw, we also felt there was just something there between Jill and Reid, and had time not been a factor there's no way she would have let him go in Maui. When I saw Jillian's reaction when Reid walked out on that platform, our suspicions were confirmed. She still had serious feelings for this guy. What followed was about an hour of emotion and confusion. Hard to believe after this many seasons we could possibly run into a situation we've never dealt with before, but that's the beauty of this show: we always do.
If you ask Jillian about that final day and Reid coming back she'll tell you it was always Ed all the way. I understand her position and if I was engaged to somebody else I would probably paint the same picture. I don't doubt for a second that Jillian loves Ed and I know that was what she wanted the moment she woke up that morning. But I also know that there was serious temptation when Reid came back and that temptation did lead to a moment of doubt. Luckily Jillian had the poise to walk away and try and collect her thoughts. That's when I asked the producers if I could go talk to her. Jillian and I have become very good friends over the last year and at that moment she needed a friend to talk to, somebody that wasn't going to manipulate or lead her in a certain direction, just somebody that would listen and let her lead herself back where she always wanted to be and that was with Ed.
I received more than a few Twitters asking why I was in the Ed camp — insinuating that I pushed Jillian in that direction. First of all, let me say I wasn't in anybody's camp. I told Jillian once she narrowed it down to the final three she really couldn't go wrong. All three guys were good men and a good fit for her in their own way. That's what made this one of the toughest decisions I've seen a Bachelorette ever have to make. Obviously my talk with Jillian was much longer and more involved than what we were able to show you on TV. I talked with her for probably ten minutes before she arrived at the decision to let Reid go again. Something you didn't see that made me laugh, and feel old, was when we were done Jillian said I reminded her of her dad. I told her her dad must be a smart man and I would take that as a compliment. Jillian knew in her heart what she wanted to do. She just needed a friend there to help her work through her emotions and figure it out. I was happy to be that friend. If she had sat down and told me that Reid was the man she loved and wanted to be with, that would have been fine by me as well, but that's not what she wanted. If you ask me to be honest about it, I have to admit for a moment there I really thought she was going to take Reid back. I'll be interested to hear your opinion of what Reid pulled.
Because Reid coming back took so long, by the time he left the sun was setting over the ocean and it was getting dark. We really didn't think we were going to be able to make it. Once Ed showed up everything was perfect. The sun was setting and you could tell it was right. When you see them together, and I have several times, they are really perfect together. I had many people say they couldn't believe she dumped Kiptyn or Reid and they actually seemed mad about it. This I truly understand. If you think she was going to pick somebody else that's one thing. If you personally would've picked somebody else, I get that too. But what I don't understand is how you could possibly question what's in Jillian's heart. How you could possibly question a woman who's happily in love with a man? Ultimately, this is her life, her heart, and she's the one that made a decision that will affect her life forever. I think she and Ed are great together and I couldn't be happier for the both of them. In the following days I know I'll be asked if I think this will last. If I could tell you that I'd put a future bet on who's going to win next year's Super Bowl. All I can tell you is what I see and that is two people who love each other very much and really want to make this work. Two people who are willing to put in the time and effort to make this work. That's all you can ask for and expect at this point.
As I said, I knew there was going to be a beautiful ending the day before the proposal. The afternoon before, I was at lunch with some folks from the show. We were talking about how the next day was going to play out when Bam! A bird crapped all over my shirt. The first thing people started telling me was that's great, that's very good luck. Funny how when bad things happen like rain on your wedding day we tell people it's good luck. I gotta be honest. I didn't see the luck in getting pooped on. I just felt like I needed to go shower and change my shirt. But if that's what it took for Jillian to find true love, I was happy to do my part. The bird certainly seemed happy to do its part.
Shooting on the islands of Hawaii was a privilege, and the resort we stayed at and shot at was the Fairmont Orchid in Kona. This is one of my new favorite places in the world. I would like to thank them for their hospitality. It was funny, the day of the proposal my wife and I walked over to Jillian's suite, which was next door to ours. We walked in to find three people trying to help Jill zip up her dress. My wife quickly jumped in. So now there's four people all around Jillian, who's now laughing, trying to get her in her dress. Kind of sums up Jill and her attitude. She has such a great personality. It made it a real joy to work with her this season.
We have still not picked our next bachelor. Tell me who you think it should be. Is there someone from this show you love or should we pick a new face all together? Overall I thought this was a very good season. I'm proud of Jillian and happy the way it all turned out. In the end, this was a Bilbro lovin', mango mango lookin', bad country croonin' season of the Bachelorette. I'd like to truly thank you for watching and supporting us and once again making this show tops on TV. For everyone who's been a part of this one…I'm Chris Harrison… Good Night!
Next Monday on the season finale of The Bachelorette, Jillian Harris finally makes her choice. Ed Swiderski and Kiptyn Locke are the last men standing. Except for the ousted Reid Rosenthal, who - Bachelorette spoiler alert - looks poised to return and possibly propose to Jillian in a surprising twist. The promo that ran after this week's "The Men Tell All" show - at which Reid was MIA - shows him returning to Hawaii for another shot at Jillian. What does Jillian say about who returns and what happens?
"I can't really tell you too much," Jillian tells ET. "I watched the tease for the finale, and I can tell you it is an exciting episode and a crazy day. I can't tell you who comes back, but it is all very traumatic, unfortunately."


The people over at rantrave.com have claimed to have found the Bachelorette season 5 finale spoilers,and they swear that they’re 100% true. So with no further ado, here they are. First, Reid is supposed to confess his love for Jillian. Then Ed is going to propose to Jillian in two weeks, even though he has a girlfriend back home. Jillian will have to choose between Reid and Ed,and it’s believed that she’ll choose Ed. Kiptyn will be announced as next year’s Bachelor. The “Bachelorette” airs Mondays at 7pm central time on ABC.
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Last night's episode of The Bachelorette revealed the final two men who will competing for Jillian Harris in the finale. Ed and Kiptyn, who are polar opposites in our opinion, will each have a chance to meet Jillian's parents and possibly propose to her in the end.
And while the fate of the two remaining contestants would appear to be unknown, finale spoilers released today seem to provide answers to all of the questions loyal viewers have been asking.
First of all, the answer to the question "Who will Jillian Harris Pick in the End" seems to be Ed. Disappointingly enough, Jill will send Kiptyn home brokenhearted and choose Ed in the hopes of a proposal. Ed will propose to Jillian and Jillian will say yes. They will live happily ever after - or for at least a few months.
Here's the twist: It also appears that last night's reject, Reid, who was a favorite to win, will come back to reveal his love for Jillian. This is the shocking confession that ABC has indicated in its promos. Will Jillian change her mind like Jason Mesnick? Sources reveal no. She will stick with Ed (disappointing, we know).
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Chicago's Ed Swiderski is one of the last two men standing on "The Bachelorette," but there have been "bumps in the road," as he puts it, to everlasting bliss with Jillian Harris.
Last night's episode was nothing short of a gaping pothole.
After Ed salvaged his job at Microsoft and worked his way back onto the show, he made up for lost time by flying his parents in to meet Jillian in Hawaii. It would be hard not to love them; "What the hell are we doing here?" asked his father, a rare voice of reason.
"I swear that I would get engaged if she picked me," Ed told him. "Honestly. I just have to pull the trigger." Afterward, Ed and Jillian retired to the "fantasy suite" to have "some intimate, cozy, sexy time," said Jillian. The lights went out . . . and then the lights went back on again. That doesn't usually happen.
It's hard to say exactly what the problem was. Ed explained, "I was very nervous, and uh, it just didn't happen. ... I couldn't show her that I really truly am in love with her."
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For anyone who might have entertained the notion — however fleetingly — of applying to be on a reality show, let Bachelorette contestant Wes Hayden's experiences serve as a cautionary tale. Hayden, a Texan country singer who exited the show last week after being portrayed as an opportunist with a girlfriend (and all-around jerk) in the quest for Jillian Harris's affections on ABC's The Bachelorette 5, has broken the first covenant of reality television: Never talk about what actually happened.
Hayden, who gave several interviews last week in an effort to repair his tarnished reputation, says that at a certain point he "actually stopped watching the show because it makes me sick." I'm guessing ABC's producers are feeling sick right about now. Hayden has become the proverbial horse that's escaped his stall and won't be corralled, no matter how binding his contract.
The most revealing interview was with "Reality Steve," whose blog (realitysteve.com) is partly devoted to exposing the off-camera machinery of ABC's successful Bachelor/Bachelorette franchise. Over the course of 85 minutes, Hayden addresses everything fans of the show might ever have wanted to know..
by Christina Kinon, http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/tv/2009/07/10/2009-07-10_reality_bites_the_batchelorette_knows_to_never_settle_for_wes.html
“The Bachelorette” (ABC) Since Wes had already performed a song on the show, introduced his band and mentioned his new country album a dozen times, he decided it was high time to head back to Texas and did just about everything short of pantsing poor Jillian so that she’d finally get the hint.
He insulted her snowshoeing skills, refused to touch her, and when she tried to get him to open up about his feelings, he pointed out a one-legged pigeon hopping by. When it was clear Jillian was still holding out hope that Wes was just a concerned bird lover, he out-and-out said he had a girlfriend, then tried to make it look like a slip of the tongue. “Uh, ex-girlfriend.” I wish Jillian would have called his name out at the rose ceremony, and when Wes smugly went to grab that flower, she went, “Uh, Reid, actually.”
Now that's good TV: Thankfully, Jillian did eliminate Wes this week, and on his limo ride of rejection back to the hotel, he said he was going to go out on the town and hook up with some Spanish ladies. “I’m in Spain ... everybody’s gonna know my name.” Hey, it’s better than (one last time!) “They say, they say love don’t come eeeeeasy.”
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by Michael Slezak, http://popwatch.ew.com/popwatch/2009/06/bachelorette-jillian-wes-ed-crazy.html
After seven episodes of The Bachelorette: Vancouver Tourism Edition, it's pretty clear our leading lady, Jillian, is an abysmal judge of character with low (and ever-plummeting) self-esteem. I mean, seriously, when you're dating a man who spends all your time together performing his "first imaginary single" while failing to straightforwardly reassure you he actually is single, it's a good sign that (in reality TV-speak) he is "not here for the right reasons." And while I was psyched to see Jillian give a rose to hot and level-headed Argyle Ed -- I respect a guy who values his day job over a 1-in-10 chance at televised love...sue me! -- I think it's clear she'd be better off leaving her romantic fate to a group of blog-reading strangers than to continue making decisions for herself. To that end, let's get together and decide the woman's future with a handy PopWatch poll! Ready, set, vote (FOR ED)! (Also: Read Kristen Baldwin's hilarious episode recap, check out Chris Harrison's behind-the-scenes blog, and watch the latest installment of The Doll Bachelorette, because you cannot get enough of this sick, addictive series!)
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Jillian Dishes About Jason
Via: Globe and Mail, http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/arts/jillian-harris-loves-the-curling-date/article1175407/
It was only a few months ago that Canadian Jillian Harris was sent home to Vancouver in a puddle of tears after being rejected by The Bachelor's Jason Mesnick. But the perky brunette didn't lick her wounds for long. The 29-year-old restaurant designer, who was born in Peace River, Alta., was tapped as the star of Season 5 of The Bachelorette , where she has most recently whittled her list of prospective husbands down to an all-star lineup of 10 hunks. In this week's episode, Harris invited the troupe to hang out with her in Vancouver, where she took the fellas kayaking, shopping on Granville Island, curling, on a boat cruise of the city harbour and on a helicopter ride to the peak of Grouse Mountain. In a phone interview from her hometown, Harris explains what it's like to be on the other side of the rose – and on her home turf. One thing is clear: She's had a grand old time sampling the tasting menu before settling on a main course.
Did you harbour secret aspirations to make it on reality TV?
I never aspired to be an actress. But I always had people tell me I'd be great on TV because of my personality and my energy. I loved my job as a designer. I applied for The Bachelor merely as a joke. I didn't think it was possible to fall in love in this fashion. And I honestly did not think they were going to call me back. I applied out of boredom. I was sitting with my girlfriend one night, drinking wine, and I thought this could be a fun little adventure for me. And I thought, you never know. Maybe I'll be the last girl standing.
How do you feel about Jason now?
I still have a huge amount of respect for him. I know he's made some decisions recently that people have questioned. [He proposed to Melissa Rycroft in the tear-stained finale, only to have a change of heart and declare his love for second choice Molly Malaney.] He wants to fall in love, and have family, and do the right thing. He's human and he's made some mistakes. I think he recognizes that.
Are you still in touch with him?
I have not spoken to him, but he sent me a text message welcoming me back. I've spoken to Melissa a few times. Everyone is over his season and now they can stress about my season.
Did you nudge the producers into writing date scenes in Vancouver?
I knew if I was going to sign up to do this – and I was potentially going to convince one guy to move back to Canada – then I wanted the guys to see where I come from. Much of where we shoot The Bachelorette is a fantasy world. I'm a grounded person and I knew if I was going to fall in love, I had to bring the show back to Canada.
What was your favourite Vancouver-based vignette with the guys?
I really love the curling date. Curling is – and I hate to say it because curlers are going to hate me – that quintessential, Canadian, nerdy sport. I find it really nostalgic. I did it a lot as a kid, hanging out in lounges. The guys really got into it. And after the match, we went on this beautiful crabbing yacht. The view was breathtaking.
Did you ever dream you'd become The Bachelorette?
Oh my God, no. I don't fit the mould. I'm the most unique and different one they've ever had. I always say I'm this short, quirky, hyper-Canadian. I'm not 5-foot-6, blond and a cheerleader. I'm very different. I'm a different kind of beautiful, and it's not supermodel beautiful.
I'm sorry, but at certain points in this week's show, you and the men looked awkward necking. Does it get a bit annoying to have to peck at people on the show all the time?
Let me set the record straight for you on the kissing stuff. If you watch closely, I only legitimately make out with four guys. And have long pecks on the lips with three or four guys. On this last episode, all those kisses were legitimate. I own them 100 per cent. I am looking for a husband and someone I'm going to spend my life with. So that physical connection is as important as the emotional one. That's what I signed up for.
What are you looking for in a mate?
I love it when a guy can express himself and tell me how he feels, not deliver some carbon-copy answer. I'm looking for someone with energy, who is compassionate, who is ready for a family and loves the outdoors.
Oh, so you want kids, how many?
I want to have two of my own and adopt one.
Will you come back to Canada if you find that perfect guy?
I would love to come back to Canada. If I do fall in love, I'd like to move to his city for a bit, and talk him into coming back to this precious, beautiful country.
Do you really expect that to happen at the end of this show?
I am going to find that guy. And it is going to be fabulous, and we are going to have a healthy, fun relationship. Am I going to run off into the sunset after The Bachelorette ? I can't really say. What I can say is that I'm in an extremely happy place right now and I feel very confident about my decision.

Ahhh the curling date. This was such a nostalgic date for me. I remember curling bonspiels when I was just a kid — so much fun! To my delight … the guys loved it too! What they didn’t love was the fact that only half of them could come on the yacht that night. To make it up to them, I sent the losers each a massage from the spa at the Fairmont. Having only half the guys there, allowed me to really connect with the five on the boat. I saw David’s true colors (finally!), had a long overdue great conversation with Jesse … and of course there was my conversation with Jake that I think came off totally wrong! Oh boy.
When Tanner told me about the girlfriend thing, at first … I was sort of numb. Part of me didn’t even want to react — but then I got really upset and decided to put my foot down with the guys. It was really so hard to know what to do especially when no one came clean. Also, it’s so hard to take advice from someone when you truly don’t know their intentions or what context they received that information. It was no surprise to see the guys talking about Wes and his intentions, I suspected a bit of this at the time — but I addressed my concerns with Wes several times and he was very adamant of his feelings for me. Again, it’s another one of those things where I want to pick who is right for ME, who I have the most natural conversations with, who is the most real with me — and not just who would win Mr. Congenitally. I hope that make sense to everyone, but please trust me on this one — I am looking for a good guy, who treats me like gold, makes me laugh and adores me … and I will never settle for anything less! (And neither should you, ladies!)
Well, sorry if this was a long one — I truly appreciate you all reading and watching every Monday.
With lots of love, happiness and hugs,
Jilly Bean.”