Jake Pavelka tells Vienna "I'm disgusted with you....Please, stop interrupting me!" More here at US Magazine.
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Michelle Honeycutt
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Let me just say...I lived that life that Vienna experienced for 9 years! What she is saying is 100% correct! I felt for her. The raw emotion she showed was NOT for TV ratings! Having your partner become emtotionless is the worst thing in a relationship. It robbs you of feeling like a woman. Jake has some DEEP issues that he is not talking about. It is INDEED a pattern and will happen again. No wonder he has been single. Chin up Vienna. I have been where you are. You will never know the real reasons why he did this to you. I will never have mine as well. Just know it WAS NOT you!!! He is a troubled soul and you got mixed up in his mess. Hugs!
I am not a "Vienna" fan, but I have to admit that I am believing Vienna on this one. Jake seems to be all about "camera time" right now, and his whole 'looking for a partner' Bachelor attitude was obviously a lie. He wants media attention and to make it big, not a wife. His smug attitude proved to us all that he tried to play the calm one, when he really is cruel and selfish. He used Vienna and an emotionless, disrespectful, 'boyfriend'. I'm GLAD Vienna went to STAR magazine, at least she got SOMETHING out of this mess and his lies.
I never ever ever liked Vienna but this time i got to beleive her more than Jake! Jake is a big arse really with him not having that good of a backround of what Vienna was saying he could not stand up for hiself!!!
I think she really cared fro him and he was being cold. I kept saying, Jake be the nice guy we saw on TV! Even if you are mad at her for what ever, you should take the high road and be the understanding guy we knew! But maybe this was all planned by Jake! He doesn't want to perceived as Mr Good guy anymore! I'm just disappointed that he turned out to be the same as the majority of men in the world! Where are the really good REAL MEN???
I think it takes two to tango and I believe that it was both of their faults. They just were not compatable. I truly believe that they were both in it for some kind of interest and would not be surprised if they both planned all of this to get what each can get out of the show all together.
I think that Jake had everything planned in his had just in case he was asked to be the next bachellor/for which he was hopping to ahppen. I believe that once he heard what all the other girls were talking about Vienna he picked her at the end instead of Tenley because he knew what he was going to do at the end and perhaps did not feel as bad hurting Vienna as he did not have high respect for her to beging with over Tenley who was already hurt and he felt some quilt over hurting her again.
There is 9 years difference in their age. She showed her immaturity. He was attracted to her at first due to her sexiness and having fun but that can only last so long as he now sees. He said she slept all of the time and would not get out and find a job. How immature. It was also very annoying how she kept interrupting him at the reunion taping. He needs someone more his age and intellect.
When I read People I was on Jake's side. Hearing Vienna, it actually seems like Jake is the true liar. The way he was talking to her was unfair. She is the victim in this situation-I'm just glad Tenley didn't have to go through with this because I was originally rooting for her. Looks like everything happens for a reason.
Jake the fake. I never liked Vienna but I believe what she says is true. He wants to be right no matter what and doesnt want anybody "undermining him". Get on with your life Vienna. There is a reason this man is single and has to go on the bachelor to find love. I would like to know how much he got paid vs how much she got out of this. I have a feeling all the money he made was his. After all he flew her dog out to LA on "his dime". Maybe that is what is all comes down to - money.
HATED the fact that Jack chose Vienna. But after last night, she is well rid of HIM. Felt sorry for her. He is a cold, smug, jerk who seemed devoid of any emotion. If I could have reached into the tv and slapped him, I would have. Cannot stand Jake now, he does seem like a fame whore. Probably why he chose Vienna and went thru with it. It was all about appearances with him. Not love. He just wanted to get into acting. I, for one, will not watch whatever show he is on. IMHO, Vienna won this round.
Every person I've asked agrees that Vienna seemed honestly betrayed and her reactions were real. Jake looked like an insenitive jerk, very cold and unfeeling. I believe both are enjoying the limelight and their ill-gotten gains, but looks like Vienna deserves every penny she can get out of this diaster!
Jake showed his true colors, an ugly shade of egotist. I did not like Vienna during the bachelor but now, I see her as the truth teller and she showed real emotions. Jake and his complaint of "undermining" equates to an enormous ego and cause for overeaction. Vienna run.. Jake appears to be the fake that everyone is talking about. Vienna's decision to cash in on the truthful interview was a wise one considering the position he placed her in. Jake, you suck pal.
Jake, you failed at hiding your ugliness during this interview with Chris. Ironically, Vienna came out smelling like a rose. I believe every detail as described by Vienna and not one word prescribed by you. At first, I was thinking that impotence was the issue and perhaps it still is?? Apparently you have an unhealthy inflated opinion of yourself and it seems to be causing this smugness and overeactions viewed as "undermining" and "disrespect". Get over yourself because apparently, you are your own worse enemy. Vienna, bravo for standing your ground, speaking the embarrasing truths and having the wisdom to exit with a little cash in your pocket considering your financial dependence on Jackazz..I mean Jake. Move forward and don't look back! I'm in your corner :)
Jake clearly suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The constant complaint about Vienna undermining him and not showing him the "proper" amount of respect were a dead giveaway.
I was not a Vienna fan during the show, and I thought Jake made a mistake by picking her. After seeing the reunion Monday night my heart hurts for Vienna. I believed she was hurt, and emotionally abused by Jake. I believe everything she said about him to be the truth. My heart hurt for her! Jake is not the man that I thought he was. I think he is a controlling man jerk!! Vienna and no other woman deserves to be treated that way. I'm proud of her for packing up and leaving him! I'm no longer a Jake fan!!
Jake was real with Jillian... that makes me think vienna brought all the negative out in him...she is not a good women, she has a weird past and that has weight. I'm still on jakes side.
The verbal brawling between the two certainly did nothing for the "integrity" of the show -- I was surprised host Chris let it deteriorate to the level it did, or did producers actually think viewers were hungry to see that kind of behavior? Jake is not the man the majority of viewers thought he was, and it seems that Vienna's star is now shining brighter. Jake's PR peeps have probably started working overtime on this mess!
I Loved Jake when he started on the Batchelor. I Hated that he chose Vienna. BUT NOW, Jake is crazy and I am on Vienna's side! He is so smug, emotionless (until he explodes) and is probably wondering about his sexual preference. Hence, not interested in being intimate with Vienna. She was so real and I totally believe all she said on TV. Go back to flying Jake.....you have the ego and controlling personality.
Wow... gratified to see that 99% of us agree that Jake came off as incredibly arrogant, unfeeling and egotistical, and Vienna, though NOT my choice for him, was the real deal. She couldn't be quiet because the hurt was so deep, she felt so betrayed,and she needed to set the record straight. Even Chris tried to make her look like she was stupid, but I am glad she stood her ground and left. Jake, not good buddy. Not good.
I believe Vienna. Jake is a fame seeker and used Vienna and the show to be famous - well Jake, it backfired - and you owe all of us an apology!! Buying 2 engagement rings - who does that??? You're all about the TV and drama - you are into yourself. Please, do us all a favor and go away!
I stared in disbelief as Jake tried to make Vienna look stupid. I did not like her during the show and when Jake picked her I was upset. However, after watching the way he acted (like an arrogant jerk), I can no longer stand him. Vienna, you did not deserve this; no woman deserves to be treated the way Jake treated you. Go on with your life; you are better off without him.
I believe Vienna she had more to say about what he was doing wrong then what he had to say he was going by what Vienna was saying and not saying anything that she did wrong. BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T. I wasn't a Vienna fan either but i believe her more than him. He had a girlfriend and told that girlfriend that it was just to get his foot in the door and then after the show he accepted dancing with the stars and then accepted a TV show acting thing? hmmmmm her name was Tanya L Douglas.com is her website and name. Vienna got a real job and she told everyone live on TV that she didn't want the Hollywood stuff..... hmmmm... someone explain that to me i believe Vienna over Jake any day... and i feel sorry for any woman that Jake comes in contact with...
Jake may have been a fame-seeker, but do you really think that Vienna was not? I believe that all she wanted was the gigantic diamond and someone to take her into the limelight ... and she got what she wanted. I think the lying and manipulation was equal. As testified from Vienna's former boyfriends/husband, she was a liar & manipulator then. What makes anyone think she had changed? She was out for herself ... to gain notariety, just as Jake may have been. They both are now rubbing elbows with the "rich & famous", instantly recognizable anywhere and will both profit from the situation. I wouldn't spend any time being concerned or feeling bad for either of them. They are both already displaying big smiles on magazine covers, and why wouldn't they be? They both got what they wanted.
I was never a fan of Vienna. I loved Jake right away in Jillian's season...but, wow, what an act. Jake obviously has issues. I am sorry that Vienna was so blindsided.
I believe Jake. Can you imagine living with someone that never shuts up and interrupts all the time? It would drive me crazy. I saw the interview and Jake could not say a word without her interrupting, that's probably how she was at home.
All we have to go on is what the show and the media choose to show us, but I have to agree that from what I have seen, Jake is a fake and not the sensitive, passionate soul he tries to portray. Apart from his cruel and insensitive words, his eyes and body language spoke volumes. When he discovered Vienna was too immature and clingy for him and they were not compatable, he could have ended things with a bit of class. His behavior was so unattractive and a huge turnoff! At first glance he looked so good on the surface, perhaps a bit too good. Now I find him repulsive. Vienna is immature, perhaps too needy, and desperately wants love and attention....but then don't we all. She was not my pick for Jake, or at least the man I perceived him to be, but I think Vienna is a sweet soul and has a good heart. I wish you much happiness Vienna! As far as your acting career goes Jake, break a leg. I actually mean that literally. The down time may give you some time to reflect on your behavior and poor image.
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Let me just say...I lived that life that Vienna experienced for 9 years! What she is saying is 100% correct! I felt for her. The raw emotion she showed was NOT for TV ratings! Having your partner become emtotionless is the worst thing in a relationship. It robbs you of feeling like a woman. Jake has some DEEP issues that he is not talking about. It is INDEED a pattern and will happen again. No wonder he has been single. Chin up Vienna. I have been where you are. You will never know the real reasons why he did this to you. I will never have mine as well. Just know it WAS NOT you!!! He is a troubled soul and you got mixed up in his mess. Hugs!
I am not a "Vienna" fan, but I have to admit that I am believing Vienna on this one. Jake seems to be all about "camera time" right now, and his whole 'looking for a partner' Bachelor attitude was obviously a lie. He wants media attention and to make it big, not a wife. His smug attitude proved to us all that he tried to play the calm one, when he really is cruel and selfish. He used Vienna and an emotionless, disrespectful, 'boyfriend'. I'm GLAD Vienna went to STAR magazine, at least she got SOMETHING out of this mess and his lies.
I am glad that Jake got rid of Vienna. She is immature and the wrong girl for him.
I never ever ever liked Vienna but this time i got to beleive her more than Jake! Jake is a big arse really with him not having that good of a backround of what Vienna was saying he could not stand up for hiself!!!
I think she really cared fro him and he was being cold. I kept saying, Jake be the nice guy we saw on TV! Even if you are mad at her for what ever, you should take the high road and be the understanding guy we knew! But maybe this was all planned by Jake! He doesn't want to perceived as Mr Good guy anymore! I'm just disappointed that he turned out to be the same as the majority of men in the world! Where are the really good REAL MEN???
I agree with Vienna and I was not a fan of hers! Jake was definitly playing for the camera's and he just seemed so smug like he was better than her!
I DO NOT LIKE JAKE AT ALL after that show and will not watch any movie/film he is in.
I think it takes two to tango and I believe that it was both of their faults. They just were not compatable. I truly believe that they were both in it for some kind of interest and would not be surprised if they both planned all of this to get what each can get out of the show all together.
I think that Jake had everything planned in his had just in case he was asked to be the next bachellor/for which he was hopping to ahppen. I believe that once he heard what all the other girls were talking about Vienna he picked her at the end instead of Tenley because he knew what he was going to do at the end and perhaps did not feel as bad hurting Vienna as he did not have high respect for her to beging with over Tenley who was already hurt and he felt some quilt over hurting her again.
There is 9 years difference in their age. She showed her immaturity. He was attracted to her at first due to her sexiness and having fun but that can only last so long as he now sees. He said she slept all of the time and would not get out and find a job. How immature. It was also very annoying how she kept interrupting him at the reunion taping. He needs someone more his age and intellect.
When I read People I was on Jake's side. Hearing Vienna, it actually seems like Jake is the true liar. The way he was talking to her was unfair. She is the victim in this situation-I'm just glad Tenley didn't have to go through with this because I was originally rooting for her. Looks like everything happens for a reason.
Jake the fake. I never liked Vienna but I believe what she says is true. He wants to be right no matter what and doesnt want anybody "undermining him". Get on with your life Vienna. There is a reason this man is single and has to go on the bachelor to find love. I would like to know how much he got paid vs how much she got out of this. I have a feeling all the money he made was his. After all he flew her dog out to LA on "his dime". Maybe that is what is all comes down to - money.
HATED the fact that Jack chose Vienna. But after last night, she is well rid of HIM. Felt sorry for her. He is a cold, smug, jerk who seemed devoid of any emotion. If I could have reached into the tv and slapped him, I would have. Cannot stand Jake now, he does seem like a fame whore. Probably why he chose Vienna and went thru with it. It was all about appearances with him. Not love. He just wanted to get into acting. I, for one, will not watch whatever show he is on. IMHO, Vienna won this round.
Every person I've asked agrees that Vienna seemed honestly betrayed and her reactions were real. Jake looked like an insenitive jerk, very cold and unfeeling. I believe both are enjoying the limelight and their ill-gotten gains, but looks like Vienna deserves every penny she can get out of this diaster!
Vienna seemed clearly more authentic last night. Jake thought that when she pulled out the GPS he was challenged? Get real.
Jake showed his true colors, an ugly shade of egotist. I did not like Vienna during the bachelor but now, I see her as the truth teller and she showed real emotions. Jake and his complaint of "undermining" equates to an enormous ego and cause for overeaction. Vienna run.. Jake appears to be the fake that everyone is talking about. Vienna's decision to cash in on the truthful interview was a wise one considering the position he placed her in. Jake, you suck pal.
Jake, you failed at hiding your ugliness during this interview with Chris. Ironically, Vienna came out smelling like a rose. I believe every detail as described by Vienna and not one word prescribed by you. At first, I was thinking that impotence was the issue and perhaps it still is?? Apparently you have an unhealthy inflated opinion of yourself and it seems to be causing this smugness and overeactions viewed as "undermining" and "disrespect". Get over yourself because apparently, you are your own worse enemy. Vienna, bravo for standing your ground, speaking the embarrasing truths and having the wisdom to exit with a little cash in your pocket considering your financial dependence on Jackazz..I mean Jake. Move forward and don't look back! I'm in your corner :)
Jake clearly suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The constant complaint about Vienna undermining him and not showing him the "proper" amount of respect were a dead giveaway.
I was not a Vienna fan during the show, and I thought Jake made a mistake by picking her. After seeing the reunion Monday night my heart hurts for Vienna. I believed she was hurt, and emotionally abused by Jake. I believe everything she said about him to be the truth. My heart hurt for her! Jake is not the man that I thought he was. I think he is a controlling man jerk!! Vienna and no other woman deserves to be treated that way. I'm proud of her for packing up and leaving him! I'm no longer a Jake fan!!
Jake was real with Jillian... that makes me think vienna brought all the negative out in him...she is not a good women, she has a weird past and that has weight. I'm still on jakes side.
The verbal brawling between the two certainly did nothing for the "integrity" of the show -- I was surprised host Chris let it deteriorate to the level it did, or did producers actually think viewers were hungry to see that kind of behavior? Jake is not the man the majority of viewers thought he was, and it seems that Vienna's star is now shining brighter. Jake's PR peeps have probably started working overtime on this mess!
I am not a Vienna fan either; however, Jake appeared to be very unstable. I do think Vienna's emotions were honest. Jake...you have issues.
I Loved Jake when he started on the Batchelor. I Hated that he chose Vienna. BUT NOW, Jake is crazy and I am on Vienna's side! He is so smug, emotionless (until he explodes) and is probably wondering about his sexual preference. Hence, not interested in being intimate with Vienna. She was so real and I totally believe all she said on TV. Go back to flying Jake.....you have the ego and controlling personality.
Wow... gratified to see that 99% of us agree that Jake came off as incredibly arrogant, unfeeling and egotistical, and Vienna, though NOT my choice for him, was the real deal. She couldn't be quiet because the hurt was so deep, she felt so betrayed,and she needed to set the record straight. Even Chris tried to make her look like she was stupid, but I am glad she stood her ground and left. Jake, not good buddy. Not good.
Jake hurt Vienna and could care less-I woudl say it's evident that he doesn't care about anyone but himself .
I believe Vienna. Jake is a fame seeker and used Vienna and the show to be famous - well Jake, it backfired - and you owe all of us an apology!! Buying 2 engagement rings - who does that??? You're all about the TV and drama - you are into yourself. Please, do us all a favor and go away!
I stared in disbelief as Jake tried to make Vienna look stupid. I did not like her during the show and when Jake picked her I was upset. However, after watching the way he acted (like an arrogant jerk), I can no longer stand him. Vienna, you did not deserve this; no woman deserves to be treated the way Jake treated you. Go on with your life; you are better off without him.
I believe Vienna she had more to say about what he was doing wrong then what he had to say he was going by what Vienna was saying and not saying anything that she did wrong. BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T. I wasn't a Vienna fan either but i believe her more than him. He had a girlfriend and told that girlfriend that it was just to get his foot in the door and then after the show he accepted dancing with the stars and then accepted a TV show acting thing? hmmmmm her name was Tanya L Douglas.com is her website and name. Vienna got a real job and she told everyone live on TV that she didn't want the Hollywood stuff..... hmmmm... someone explain that to me i believe Vienna over Jake any day... and i feel sorry for any woman that Jake comes in contact with...
Jake may have been a fame-seeker, but do you really think that Vienna was not? I believe that all she wanted was the gigantic diamond and someone to take her into the limelight ... and she got what she wanted. I think the lying and manipulation was equal. As testified from Vienna's former boyfriends/husband, she was a liar & manipulator then. What makes anyone think she had changed? She was out for herself ... to gain notariety, just as Jake may have been. They both are now rubbing elbows with the "rich & famous", instantly recognizable anywhere and will both profit from the situation. I wouldn't spend any time being concerned or feeling bad for either of them. They are both already displaying big smiles on magazine covers, and why wouldn't they be? They both got what they wanted.
I never liked Vienna but I think Ali totally dodged a bullet here... I'm with VBienna here. Jake is a total dissapointment.
I was never a fan of Vienna. I loved Jake right away in Jillian's season...but, wow, what an act. Jake obviously has issues. I am sorry that Vienna was so blindsided.
They are both dickheads. Ali is real... I hope so...where is anyones authentic personality on this show anyway.
vienna is telling the truth
I believe Jake. Can you imagine living with someone that never shuts up and interrupts all the time? It would drive me crazy. I saw the interview and Jake could not say a word without her interrupting, that's probably how she was at home.
She is daddy's girl.
All we have to go on is what the show and the media choose to show us, but I have to agree that from what I have seen, Jake is a fake and not the sensitive, passionate soul he tries to portray. Apart from his cruel and insensitive words, his eyes and body language spoke volumes. When he discovered Vienna was too immature and clingy for him and they were not compatable, he could have ended things with a bit of class. His behavior was so unattractive and a huge turnoff! At first glance he looked so good on the surface, perhaps a bit too good. Now I find him repulsive. Vienna is immature, perhaps too needy, and desperately wants love and attention....but then don't we all. She was not my pick for Jake, or at least the man I perceived him to be, but I think Vienna is a sweet soul and has a good heart. I wish you much happiness Vienna! As far as your acting career goes Jake, break a leg. I actually mean that literally. The down time may give you some time to reflect on your behavior and poor image.
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