Jake and Vienna deserve each other. It's hard to believe that Jake didn't see the real Vienna from the get go. She's not that attractive to start with, the big nose and all and she was so clingy. I say, both deserve each other and I'm glad Tenley wasn't chosen by Jake since he turned out to be a joke.
1st off- don't insult Vienna's looks- that has NOTHING to do with anything Beauty does not bring happiness or perfection. 2ndly, this interview made Jake look like an ego maniac, a..hole. His 15 minutes of fame is over and I hope he goes back home.
dear jake, you are very fake. stop being a control freak. Vienna seems like a very real and nice young lady. im only 14 and i can tell that jake would make a terrible husband. i used to actually think he was a nice man but actually just is a good actor. he ACTED like he loved Vienna. He ACTED like he was the innocent one but he isnt! JAKE YOU ARE A NO GOOD, LYING, JERK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I never used to be that crazy about Vienna but I have changed my mind tonight! She made a lot more sense that Jake did. His smug look on his "poor me". All he wants is to be famous and start up an acting career! What happened to being a pilot? Something that he said he loved! I guess you make more money doing "Dancing with the Stars"! Your a jerk Jake! Vienna, you are better off without him.
Vienna we love you! Jake the fake!!! Get a real job you actor... Vienna don't be sad, it's best it's over now.. You will find your true love.. plus, sometimes it just takes time to see the real truth. You were "miss judged" at the begginning and at least, we finally can believe what life would really be like, with the "pilot"... after all, he really never could take you off the ground...He's a B.S. FAKE LIAR!! What do you do when you live in a shoe, put on aboot and get laced...!!Keep movin' on BABE!!
I think it is ridiculous that everyone is getting mad at Jake and thinking Vienna is so innocent, yeah right. I think she had a part in this relationship going down like he did. As Jake said she gets a temper and stomps off crying and she did. vienna said he can also have a temper and he did. Also, she made herself look bad because she ran to the tabloids first and this crap about "I am going to go there(tabloids) before he does" is bull. She should have let him go first and then he would have looked bad.
Jake is a smug liar! I have no doubt that he is a liar. He talked down to Vienna tonight. She was in pain and speaking from her heart. She is really hurt. He is an ass!!!She is better off without him!! He is a fame whore! I have no doubt that he has been a smug cold nasty person and she could not handle it any more. It is his loss!!!!!
Talk about watching a train wreck - over and over ... Jake is a jerk! I don't particularly like Vienna, but Jake just makes my skin crawl!! Vienna is well rid of him. No more tears, he's not worth it.
He, he, he...those comments are interesting!!! But for those of you who have followed EACH AND EVERYONE of the episodes, one could very clearly see that Vienna was acting like a 14 years old kid, running after the prince charming. She's not a woman, she's a child and worse, Jake fell for it... He got what he deserve...a very bad dream...Remember the episode where they spend the night at the winery (The big Castle)...Vienna was running like crazy everywhere, almost in the dark, looking for Jake who was discussing with another woman...She was so scared being by herself without her "beloved Jake"...And what all the other "contestants" where thinking of her!!! It took Jake 6 months to wake up and clearly see his mistake...She's a nightmare for any mature men...and she clearly does'nt like seing other women around his "precious Jake" re: Dancing With The Stars...Voila....
This comment is from someone who HATED Vienna in Jake's Bachelor series...Vienna is telling the truth tonight on the showdown episode.She has nothing to lose, no reason to lie.All her explainations are consistent with her body language and with LOGIC. However, as with Jake, I have now seen enough footage now, of his contrived facial expressions and not so inconspicuously FAKE gestures of genuineness that I now know his true colors.I may be going out on a limb here and no offense to Vienna but I think he chose Vienna as his means to maintain the spotlight because she was(at least seemingly) the most naive and accepting of him out of all the girls and he knew that the other women would have caught on to his agenda too soon, she was an easy pawn. You could just see the anger, disrespect and narcasism bubbling in him behind that mug tonight.It never showed before because during the bachelor, he was never up against the wall like Vienna had him tonight!!! Even though she did not hide her frustration and anguish as good as Jake did, it is still obvious who was trying to pull the wool over the world's eyes,JAKE the FAKE.What is ironic is I remember during his series how he defended Vienna on her honesty etc. Well, tonight's LOSER is Jake. Tonight's winner is Vienna and oh yea, Ali too for having the intuition to go back to work instead of hangin around for Jake's B.S. on his series!!!!!Sincerely, Shilo, 36yr old mom, Saskatchewan Canada.
Watched the interview, and I would say that the only one there that seemed to be truthful was Vienna. Jake appeared like a complete control freak. That is not maturity. That is someone who has the soul the size of a pinhead. She is better off without the freak.
She should have kept her mouth shut and let him say what he had to say. She made herself look bad by constinantly interrupting and then by stomping out. I think they both want the limelight. Now they can go get it in thier own directions. That's all they wanted in the first place.
Jake is a very decent person-- he was just at his wits end dealing with a woman who acts like a teenager who hasn't grown up. You can tell by his body language and facial expressions that he believes what he is saying and that he has true frustration by her behaviour and that it is not an act or to further his career. Any man who spends more than a few weeks dating Vienna will need to take anger management courses to deal with her behaviour.
Jake is a real loser. I hope his 15 minutes are over. I did not care at all for Vienna when he picked her, but after tonight I have changed my opinion of her. Jake you are a real jerk and hope your new TV show gets cancelled.
I'm glad they did the interview because Vienna was the villian and would have gotten no sympathy or support had Jake not shown his true colors. He showed no emotions at all. You can't tell me that someone that was in love recently and "just came home" and she was gone, wouldn't show something other than smugness and arrogance. He is a "media whore"
Jake is a controlling freak who only loves himself. He chose Vienna because she was young and trusting and an easy pawn in his twisted game. What a jerk. Calling her "baby" and yelling at her. Actually I wish Ali stayed on and he chose her because the two have more in common than I had imagined. Both fame whores and both totally into themselves! Poor Vienna! What a waste of time for her. I say more power to her if she gets paid by the tabloids! Sell what you can girl and make the money you deserve for being exploited by him blah!
Does anyone remember Vienna reportedly cleared out her husband's bank account to have her boobs enlarged while the husband was stationed in the middle east? Then she claimed the poor fellow was mean and didn't understand her so she divorced him Does anyone remember the visit she and Jake made to her family? Not the classiest group in the world. All the rumors on her from hometown folks were true. She should get an academy award for her performance tonight. Jake needs to go back home and fly his plane. He is toast.
Vienna's past reputation is rearing its ugly head! Doesn't anyone remember what she did to her last husband??? Guess he didn't understand her, either! Jake may not be innocent in all this, but Vienna running to the tabloids is classless. She is trailer trash who had Jake fooled....if only he had listened to the other ladies in the house....
I was really rooting for Jake and Vienna. She has spunk and personality and I really liked Jake from the beginning. Until the interview on the Bachelorette tonight. Jake was so condescending and controlling! I'm not saying Vienna is perfect but I was really surprised at Jake's behavior. They are both strong personalities but he was determined to steamroll over the top of her and put her down. I won't be watching Drop Dead Diva anymore now that he's going to be on it.
Jake no longer works for asa anymore. He was in hiring pool at another airline. I hope they change their mind. I've heard they look for character and he has none. He's a jerk and acted like an idiot tonight. Jake, I hope your five minutes of fame are over. Your nothing to look at and your attitude says it all. I believe Vienna is telling the truth and hope she finds happiness. By the way Jake, you suck at dancing. However, I did enjoy watching you slip up and make several mistakes. It was quiet humerous.
Jake seemed like such a good genuine guy... But tonight he showed his tru colors! And ACTUALLY JAKE, The last question was for Vienna, YOU interrupted her!! douche. Wow great opportunity to see the real Jake.. Immature jerk. Good thing it ended
looks like Jake's plans backfired on him. He may have gotten his 15 min but I don't think a lot of people would go see anything he is in. He isn't that good of an actor seeing as people were laughing at him when he was crying. What a joke he is.
From the beginning, I believed Jake picked Vienna because they were on common ground. He made my blood run cold tonight. He was a controlling jerk. The host was trying so hard to be on his side, and was running out of options!....... I hope Jake goes away now....
I have always thought Vienna was crazy!!! But, with that said she has remained crazy from day one and has never changed. It is easy to poke at her imperfections, but I don't think she lead him on, she has always acted crazy. With that said, it is a shame the whole thing has been so public. They could have resolved it and gone their separate ways without all the drama. I don't think she was being dishonest, and it showed how stupid and unhealthy their relationship was. Ultimately Jake has left looking the worst- despite his efforts to maintain his squeaky clean chivalrous appearance, he is obviously not as charming, respectful and sincere in reality as he is on "reality TV."
I was disappointed when Jake originally chose Vienna, but tonight my opinion completely changed and I am on Vienna's side. I do not believe she handled the break-up the best way, but I agree that she had to tell her side of the story. He was condescending. I believe her when she said the displays of affection ended almost immediately, thus the real reason for the relationship dissolving. Jake literally appeared crazy. I will NEVER watch a movie he is in. Chris's attempt to put Vienna on the hot seat failed. Her popularity rating soared tonight. Vienna, you will be just fine. Good luck in your job.
I think he is hiding that he is gay... eihter way, he was so full of crap it wasn't even remotely funny. And Chris should have cross examined him, but for some reason chose not to....
I did not think they were a good match from the start, but her impulsiveness and childish ways attracted him in the first place. She was a "cause" for his need to control and belittle a woman. Jake, your in the wrong century and Vienna, grow up or this will only be the start of the attraction to controlling men.
he chose Vienaa (over Tenley) because he figured Vienna would be tougher to hurt, because its obvious he never had any intention of marrying, he was interested in the tv opportunities. what a JERK! can't stand em!!
"I've never been in a relationship where I have raised my voice" are you kidding me?? Playing the sympathy an the saint card a little too hard don't you think? He is completely full of crap. I mean....He is definetely a dangerous man. I can't stand to look at him.
I think Jake is gay and just uses women to get attention for his acting. I think that is why they never had sex.
Also, if you noticed, he kept his mouth closed while he kissed every girl on the show. One girl even made a remark about it and he kicked her off right away.
Love how he says he is a pilot and yet he hasn't flown a plane in over a year.
He is a jerk. He has no idea how to communicate with anyone if he thinks you have to both sit in silence while the other one talks.
I can't believe he yelled at her on camera. He is a real jerk!
Mike [ yep stepping out from the Anonymous stone ]
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They were both wrong. She is not ready to deal with the realities of marriage. Boo Woo... he didn't kiss me. Time to grow up and act like an adult. He needed to not be so efficient, to the point that hindered her from being free to see if her idea of the bedroom arrangements. He felt that she didn't believe him when he measured. These things are so trivial, things that could be identified through some simple counseling.
Vienna is really not ready to handle a life of compromise, because that is really what marriage is about.
Jake is really straight forward with his thoughts. He is really simple to understand. He spelled it out. Vienna, was just going crazy and adding so much drama to their relationship. Thus the tabloid run. Really? I don't see mature people running to tabloids blabbing about how so and so didn't kiss them.
And she really didn't learn anything from this. Nor was her apology sincere, because she added a "BUT" to her apology. And what about that apology from her, what a joke.
Sure there are feelings, and feelings are valid, but Vienna is really not able to handle any relationship with any Guy. Jake is right. No guy should seriously consider Vienna for marriage for like 5 years. She needs to grow up. Before that time line, the poor guy is just asking for many years of counseling.
I think it is interesting to read the comments on this blog. So many are quick to not see both sides. So quick to bash someone. Let's all think about what you put out on this blog. What if everyone was talking about you? What if they didn't really look at your situation objectively and as best as possible with limited details from both sides, before weighing in?
Jake and Vienna are both special people, they both have families and friends that love them. Despite what they are seeking in life, they are people just like you and me that happen to be in the spotlight for 15 minutes.
Think about what they personally are going through in those 15 minutes of fame. Being famous is a double edged sword. Great when things go right, horrible when things go bad. We as the spectators are part of the bad. We make things worse.
The tongue is the most powerful weapon that we have that can easily tear people apart.
Simply put, Jake and Vienna are not a good match, obviously. So let them move on. And let us move on. Pray for them to find their true soul mates.
...Actually Mike [yep stepping out from behind the anonymous rock] says:They were both wrong. Jake needs to be flexible, allow his mate to be free and explore with arranging the bedroom. Vienna is too young for a serious relationship like marriage. Running to the tabloids because you are not getting the attention you thought? Really?
With all that was going on, believe it or not, I believe Jake. Vienna needs to spend some more time just living live and developing her life views. Like 5 years.
I totally understand this break up. I went through one just like it. It was really hard. It tore me up. Just like you can bet it was tearing them up.
And yeah, as fake as it seemed, Vienna's storm was motivated by real feelings. Feelings are valid from both people. Whether they are translated for Jake and vice versa, nothing is going to happen.
Honestly, these two needed to get some Godly counseling. The trivial complaints would be dealt with.
The tongue is the most powerful weapon that we as people have. It is the only thing that can tear someone down to the core. So with this, let us as spectators just be objective. Stop the "Team Vienna" and "Team Jake". We need to realize that these two are people just like you and me. They just are caught up in their 15 minutes of fame. We as the spectators are adding to the bad with our bashing.
Just imagine if you were in their shoes. Would you want the words you typed here to be directed to you??? How horrible!
Simply put, these two people just need to go their separate ways. This mis-match happens all the time in life. I am sure glad it happened in my life. I would not be with my wonderful wife if I kept beating my head against the wall with someone else that didn't match me.
They are real people with real feelings. We are not living their lives, and we don't know all the details. What is obvious is that they are not right for each other.
Jake is a great guy. He really wants to be the provider and to feel respected.
Vienna is a wonderful girl. Yeah, girl, not woman. She just needs to feel loved. (Although, just from experience, she needs to dial it down and understand guys have many other demands in life.)
I am not excusing men from dating their wives through their marriages. This is really what Vienna was freaking out about. She didn't see that dating stage anymore. And Jake didn't handle the transition very well. They needed more time to grow their relationship before jumping back into real life. But life is life and you can only to the best at the present time. Take your lumps and apply them later in life.
They will take this experience and be better people. Too bad it had to happen so violently and quickly.
Crocodile tears. The whole interview was basically Vienna talking and acting like such a victim.She acting like a spoilt 5 yr old but then again we have to remember that she is still young.There are always 2 sides to every story and she never once mentioned any faults on her part. It was basically you did this, you did that. Betcha that she would never have apologized for going to the tabloids if Chris hadn't shown disdain for those actions. As for Jake..he shouldn't be surprised...if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it is a duck.Anyone could see Vienna was trouble so he needs to man up and accept he made the wrong choice then move on.
What was wrong with Chris last night? Why didn't he ask jake to apologize!?Why the heck did Vienna need to apologize to such an abusive control FREAK! And I agree with one of the above comments, Jake is quite femme in many ways. He's sure hiding something. Vienna doesn't need to grow up, she needs to enjoy being herself and acting her age (which let's all remember that she is young still). Jake needs to recognize he sucks and actually most people have more respect for Justin (rated R) now than for jake the jerk.
Jake appeared to be a sadistic control freak. Any ass who treats a woman the way he was treating her, deserves to be banned from humanity. Her "interruptions" (if you can call them that) had more to do with not being heard, having any suggestion she made shot down. For little Jakey boy, she was not to question any suggestion (order) that he made. He appeared to be a controlling domineering bastard. No woman wants a plastic fake creep.
He's a egomaniacal jerk. His acting career? Really? Please go home and return to being a pilot. He has some major anger issues and is condesending. I was no fan of Vienna, but she came off ( as weepy and whiny as she can be) much better than Jake. He is a fame whore and his attempt to accuse her of cheating was obviously b.s. He's a smarmy jerk.
Jake claimed he was a commerical pilot. Does this guy even HAVE a job? Remember when he said in the interview on Monday night that he was not going to fly her dog out "on [his] dime"? Cheap jerk. He also left her stuck in L.A. with no car rental. Cheap jerk. He is a dangerous egomaniac who chose the youngest woman he could find, because he assumed he could control her. WRONG, Jake!! Vienna has a good mind and speaks it. Jake is a putz, dangerous, and certainly is not attractive enough to pose nude. OMG Keep your clothes ON, Jake, and GET A JOB!! You're supposed to be a United pilot, you big fraud! (NOW we all understand why you are 32, have a house and money and a career, but canNOT find a wife. NO one can stand you! Go away, Jake.) Since he stopped the physical contact the moment the cameras turned off, I do think he Jake is GAY. He needs a man and cannot pretend for another second that he desires women. Ha!! A fraud.
What is up with all the hatred for Jake? Let's not forget that Vienna has a reputation for being pretty manipulative and two-faced. the whole thing is petty,no one ever knows what goes on behind 4 walls but I can say from experience that the one that usually runs out first with their side of the story as well as constantly pointing fingers,is usually the one with the guilty conscience and has to save their ass.
What do you call a good looking pilot with lots of money and no girlfriend when he is surrounded by beautiful air hostesses." Someone who has serious mental problems. I hope his movie career crashes and burns ..... unless there is a good part for a gay psycho who loves to hate women. There was one thing though Jake and Vienna had in common - they both loved Jake. Vienna can count her lucky stars she is out of that abusive relationship.
I think that the only reason that Jake and that "horse faced slut" broke up is that Jake didnt "treat her like a princess"as her backwoods daddy told him to. She is the type of person that has to have her hand held all through her life- she is far from perfect- not even close to good- Let's not forget what she did to her x-hubby while he was overseas fighting for our country!!! If Jake had chosen better he would not be in this situation he is in now at least he didnt make the mistake getting her pregnant!!!!!!
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He should have chose Tenley! Team Jake all the way!
Jake and Vienna deserve each other. It's hard to believe that Jake didn't see the real Vienna from the get go. She's not that attractive to start with, the big nose and all and she was so clingy. I say, both deserve each other and I'm glad Tenley wasn't chosen by Jake since he turned out to be a joke.
He is full of crap
Vienna is not lying
Look at the body expressions
I am I guy
i can see it
I agree with you his body language ... he is sooo smug... and is a liar.... i can't stand him...
What an a ???
He just wamnts the television time.
1st off- don't insult Vienna's looks- that has NOTHING to do with anything Beauty does not bring happiness or perfection. 2ndly, this interview made Jake look like an ego maniac, a..hole. His 15 minutes of fame is over and I hope he goes back home.
Thanks for the support
He is a control freek
The same kin of guy in thta movie
Sleeping with the enemy
dear jake, you are very fake. stop being a control freak. Vienna seems like a very real and nice young lady. im only 14 and i can tell that jake would make a terrible husband. i used to actually think he was a nice man but actually just is a good actor. he ACTED like he loved Vienna. He ACTED like he was the innocent one but he isnt! JAKE YOU ARE A NO GOOD, LYING, JERK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I never used to be that crazy about Vienna but I have changed my mind tonight! She made a lot more sense that Jake did. His smug look on his "poor me". All he wants is to be famous and start up an acting career! What happened to being a pilot? Something that he said he loved! I guess you make more money doing "Dancing with the Stars"! Your a jerk Jake! Vienna, you are better off without him.
Complete jerkoff.
He is Fame greed whimpee guy!
Now Jake can go back to his hometown girlfriend that he's had the whole time.
Jake has control issues. Vienna was talking from her heart. Jake was trying to save his reputation.
Vienna we love you! Jake the fake!!! Get a real job you actor... Vienna don't be sad, it's best it's over now.. You will find your true love.. plus, sometimes it just takes time to see the real truth. You were "miss judged" at the begginning and at least, we finally can believe what life would really be like, with the "pilot"... after all, he really never could take you off the ground...He's a B.S. FAKE LIAR!! What do you do when you live in a shoe, put on aboot and get laced...!!Keep movin' on BABE!!
I think it is ridiculous that everyone is getting mad at Jake and thinking Vienna is so innocent, yeah right. I think she had a part in this relationship going down like he did. As Jake said she gets a temper and stomps off crying and she did. vienna said he can also have a temper and he did. Also, she made herself look bad because she ran to the tabloids first and this crap about "I am going to go there(tabloids) before he does" is bull. She should have let him go first and then he would have looked bad.
Jake is a smug liar! I have no doubt that he is a liar. He talked down to Vienna tonight. She was in pain and speaking from her heart. She is really hurt. He is an ass!!!She is better off without him!! He is a fame whore! I have no doubt that he has been a smug cold nasty person and she could not handle it any more. It is his loss!!!!!
Talk about watching a train wreck - over and over ... Jake is a jerk! I don't particularly like Vienna, but Jake just makes my skin crawl!! Vienna is well rid of him. No more tears, he's not worth it.
He, he, he...those comments are interesting!!! But for those of you who have followed EACH AND EVERYONE of the episodes, one could very clearly see that Vienna was acting like a 14 years old kid, running after the prince charming. She's not a woman, she's a child and worse, Jake fell for it... He got what he deserve...a very bad dream...Remember the episode where they spend the night at the winery (The big Castle)...Vienna was running like crazy everywhere, almost in the dark, looking for Jake who was discussing with another woman...She was so scared being by herself without her "beloved Jake"...And what all the other "contestants" where thinking of her!!! It took Jake 6 months to wake up and clearly see his mistake...She's a nightmare for any mature men...and she clearly does'nt like seing other women around his "precious Jake" re: Dancing With The Stars...Voila....
This comment is from someone who HATED Vienna in Jake's Bachelor series...Vienna is telling the truth tonight on the showdown episode.She has nothing to lose, no reason to lie.All her explainations are consistent with her body language and with LOGIC. However, as with Jake, I have now seen enough footage now, of his contrived facial expressions and not so inconspicuously FAKE gestures of genuineness that I now know his true colors.I may be going out on a limb here and no offense to Vienna but I think he chose Vienna as his means to maintain the spotlight because she was(at least seemingly) the most naive and accepting of him out of all the girls and he knew that the other women would have caught on to his agenda too soon, she was an easy pawn. You could just see the anger, disrespect and narcasism bubbling in him behind that mug tonight.It never showed before because during the bachelor, he was never up against the wall like Vienna had him tonight!!! Even though she did not hide her frustration and anguish as good as Jake did, it is still obvious who was trying to pull the wool over the world's eyes,JAKE the FAKE.What is ironic is I remember during his series how he defended Vienna on her honesty etc. Well, tonight's LOSER is Jake. Tonight's winner is Vienna and oh yea, Ali too for having the intuition to go back to work instead of hangin around for Jake's B.S. on his series!!!!!Sincerely, Shilo, 36yr old mom, Saskatchewan Canada.
Watched the interview, and I would say that the only one there that seemed to be truthful was Vienna. Jake appeared like a complete control freak. That is not maturity. That is someone who has the soul the size of a pinhead. She is better off without the freak.
She should have kept her mouth shut and let him say what he had to say. She made herself look bad by constinantly interrupting and then by stomping out. I think they both want the limelight. Now they can go get it in thier own directions. That's all they wanted in the first place.
Jake is a very decent person-- he was just at his wits end dealing with a woman who acts like a teenager who hasn't grown up. You can tell by his body language and facial expressions that he believes what he is saying and that he has true frustration by her behaviour and that it is not an act or to further his career. Any man who spends more than a few weeks dating Vienna will need to take anger management courses to deal with her behaviour.
Jake is a real loser. I hope his 15 minutes are over. I did not care at all for Vienna when he picked her, but after tonight I have changed my opinion of her. Jake you are a real jerk and hope your new TV show gets cancelled.
Jake = narcissist. Enough said.
Jake's officially an Ass. Vienna may not be well put together, but he's a total ass! I've always supported Jake, but he seems to be the biggest dick!
I'm glad they did the interview because Vienna was the villian and would have gotten no sympathy or support had Jake not shown his true colors. He showed no emotions at all. You can't tell me that someone that was in love recently and "just came home" and she was gone, wouldn't show something other than smugness and arrogance. He is a "media whore"
Jake is a controlling freak who only loves himself. He chose Vienna because she was young and trusting and an easy pawn in his twisted game. What a jerk. Calling her "baby" and yelling at her. Actually I wish Ali stayed on and he chose her because the two have more in common than I had imagined. Both fame whores and both totally into themselves!
Poor Vienna! What a waste of time for her. I say more power to her if she gets paid by the tabloids! Sell what you can girl and make the money you deserve for being exploited by him blah!
Does anyone remember Vienna reportedly cleared out her husband's bank account to have her boobs enlarged while the husband was stationed in the middle east? Then she claimed the poor fellow was mean and didn't understand her so she divorced him Does anyone remember the visit she and Jake made to her family? Not the classiest group in the world. All the rumors on her from hometown folks were true. She should get an academy award for her performance tonight. Jake needs to go back home and fly his plane. He is toast.
Vienna's past reputation is rearing its ugly head! Doesn't anyone remember what she did to her last husband??? Guess he didn't understand her, either! Jake may not be innocent in all this, but Vienna running to the tabloids is classless. She is trailer trash who had Jake fooled....if only he had listened to the other ladies in the house....
I was really rooting for Jake and Vienna. She has spunk and personality and I really liked Jake from the beginning. Until the interview on the Bachelorette tonight. Jake was so condescending and controlling! I'm not saying Vienna is perfect but I was really surprised at Jake's behavior. They are both strong personalities but he was determined to steamroll over the top of her and put her down. I won't be watching Drop Dead Diva anymore now that he's going to be on it.
Jake no longer works for asa anymore. He was in hiring pool at another airline. I hope they change their mind. I've heard they look for character and he has none. He's a jerk and acted like an idiot tonight. Jake, I hope your five minutes of fame are over. Your nothing to look at and your attitude says it all. I believe Vienna is telling the truth and hope she finds happiness. By the way Jake, you suck at dancing. However, I did enjoy watching you slip up and make several mistakes. It was quiet humerous.
Jakes a jerk and can't dance. It was funny watching him.
Jake seemed like such a good genuine guy... But tonight he showed his tru colors! And ACTUALLY JAKE, The last question was for Vienna, YOU interrupted her!! douche. Wow great opportunity to see the real Jake.. Immature jerk. Good thing it ended
looks like Jake's plans backfired on him. He may have gotten his 15 min but I don't think a lot of people would go see anything he is in. He isn't that good of an actor seeing as people were laughing at him when he was crying. What a joke he is.
From the beginning, I believed Jake picked Vienna because they were on common ground. He made my blood run cold tonight. He was a controlling jerk. The host was trying so hard to be on his side, and was running out of options!....... I hope Jake goes away now....
I have always thought Vienna was crazy!!! But, with that said she has remained crazy from day one and has never changed. It is easy to poke at her imperfections, but I don't think she lead him on, she has always acted crazy. With that said, it is a shame the whole thing has been so public. They could have resolved it and gone their separate ways without all the drama. I don't think she was being dishonest, and it showed how stupid and unhealthy their relationship was. Ultimately Jake has left looking the worst- despite his efforts to maintain his squeaky clean chivalrous appearance, he is obviously not as charming, respectful and sincere in reality as he is on "reality TV."
I was disappointed when Jake originally chose Vienna, but tonight my opinion completely changed and I am on Vienna's side. I do not believe she handled the break-up the best way, but I agree that she had to tell her side of the story. He was condescending. I believe her when she said the displays of affection ended almost immediately, thus the real reason for the relationship dissolving. Jake literally appeared crazy. I will NEVER watch a movie he is in. Chris's attempt to
put Vienna on the hot seat failed. Her popularity rating soared tonight. Vienna, you will be just fine. Good luck in your job.
Can not STAND JAKE!
Jake, can you say narcissist personality disorder? OMG, too bad ABC doesn't screen for these things.
Shame on Jake! Anyone that defends him needs to get help themselves. I wish Vienna all the best, and for Jake...get some help!!!!!!
I think he is hiding that he is gay...
eihter way, he was so full of crap it wasn't even remotely funny. And Chris should have cross examined him, but for some reason chose not to....
I did not think they were a good match from the start, but her impulsiveness and childish ways attracted him in the first place. She was a "cause" for his need to control and belittle a woman. Jake, your in the wrong century and Vienna, grow up or this will only be the start of the attraction to controlling men.
He isn't going anywhere yet, I read he is going to be on the Bachelor Pad. Oh Joy. Maybe he is going to hook up with another Bachelor!
Jake was just plain creepy tonight. I wanted to smack him thru the tv screen. D..K!!!!
he chose Vienaa (over Tenley) because he figured Vienna would be tougher to hurt, because its obvious he never had any intention of marrying, he was interested in the tv opportunities. what a JERK! can't stand em!!
"I've never been in a relationship where I have raised my voice" are you kidding me?? Playing the sympathy an the saint card a little too hard don't you think? He is completely full of crap. I mean....He is definetely a dangerous man. I can't stand to look at him.
I think Jake is gay and just uses women to get attention for his acting. I think that is why they never had sex.
Also, if you noticed, he kept his mouth closed while he kissed every girl on the show. One girl even made a remark about it and he kicked her off right away.
Love how he says he is a pilot and yet he hasn't flown a plane in over a year.
He is a jerk. He has no idea how to communicate with anyone if he thinks you have to both sit in silence while the other one talks.
I can't believe he yelled at her on camera. He is a real jerk!
They were both wrong. She is not ready to deal with the realities of marriage. Boo Woo... he didn't kiss me. Time to grow up and act like an adult. He needed to not be so efficient, to the point that hindered her from being free to see if her idea of the bedroom arrangements. He felt that she didn't believe him when he measured. These things are so trivial, things that could be identified through some simple counseling.
Vienna is really not ready to handle a life of compromise, because that is really what marriage is about.
Jake is really straight forward with his thoughts. He is really simple to understand. He spelled it out. Vienna, was just going crazy and adding so much drama to their relationship. Thus the tabloid run. Really? I don't see mature people running to tabloids blabbing about how so and so didn't kiss them.
And she really didn't learn anything from this. Nor was her apology sincere, because she added a "BUT" to her apology. And what about that apology from her, what a joke.
Sure there are feelings, and feelings are valid, but Vienna is really not able to handle any relationship with any Guy. Jake is right. No guy should seriously consider Vienna for marriage for like 5 years. She needs to grow up. Before that time line, the poor guy is just asking for many years of counseling.
I think it is interesting to read the comments on this blog. So many are quick to not see both sides. So quick to bash someone. Let's all think about what you put out on this blog. What if everyone was talking about you? What if they didn't really look at your situation objectively and as best as possible with limited details from both sides, before weighing in?
Jake and Vienna are both special people, they both have families and friends that love them. Despite what they are seeking in life, they are people just like you and me that happen to be in the spotlight for 15 minutes.
Think about what they personally are going through in those 15 minutes of fame. Being famous is a double edged sword. Great when things go right, horrible when things go bad. We as the spectators are part of the bad. We make things worse.
The tongue is the most powerful weapon that we have that can easily tear people apart.
Simply put, Jake and Vienna are not a good match, obviously. So let them move on. And let us move on. Pray for them to find their true soul mates.
...Actually Mike [yep stepping out from behind the anonymous rock] says:They were both wrong. Jake needs to be flexible, allow his mate to be free and explore with arranging the bedroom. Vienna is too young for a serious relationship like marriage. Running to the tabloids because you are not getting the attention you thought? Really?
With all that was going on, believe it or not, I believe Jake. Vienna needs to spend some more time just living live and developing her life views. Like 5 years.
I totally understand this break up. I went through one just like it. It was really hard. It tore me up. Just like you can bet it was tearing them up.
And yeah, as fake as it seemed, Vienna's storm was motivated by real feelings. Feelings are valid from both people. Whether they are translated for Jake and vice versa, nothing is going to happen.
Honestly, these two needed to get some Godly counseling. The trivial complaints would be dealt with.
The tongue is the most powerful weapon that we as people have. It is the only thing that can tear someone down to the core. So with this, let us as spectators just be objective. Stop the "Team Vienna" and "Team Jake". We need to realize that these two are people just like you and me. They just are caught up in their 15 minutes of fame. We as the spectators are adding to the bad with our bashing.
Just imagine if you were in their shoes. Would you want the words you typed here to be directed to you??? How horrible!
Simply put, these two people just need to go their separate ways. This mis-match happens all the time in life. I am sure glad it happened in my life. I would not be with my wonderful wife if I kept beating my head against the wall with someone else that didn't match me.
They are real people with real feelings. We are not living their lives, and we don't know all the details. What is obvious is that they are not right for each other.
Jake is a great guy. He really wants to be the provider and to feel respected.
Vienna is a wonderful girl. Yeah, girl, not woman. She just needs to feel loved. (Although, just from experience, she needs to dial it down and understand guys have many other demands in life.)
I am not excusing men from dating their wives through their marriages. This is really what Vienna was freaking out about. She didn't see that dating stage anymore. And Jake didn't handle the transition very well. They needed more time to grow their relationship before jumping back into real life. But life is life and you can only to the best at the present time. Take your lumps and apply them later in life.
They will take this experience and be better people. Too bad it had to happen so violently and quickly.
Crocodile tears. The whole interview was basically Vienna talking and acting like such a victim.She acting like a spoilt 5 yr old but then again we have to remember that she is still young.There are always 2 sides to every story and she never once mentioned any faults on her part. It was basically you did this, you did that. Betcha that she would never have apologized for going to the tabloids if Chris hadn't shown disdain for those actions. As for Jake..he shouldn't be surprised...if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it is a duck.Anyone could see Vienna was trouble so he needs to man up and accept he made the wrong choice then move on.
What was wrong with Chris last night? Why didn't he ask jake to apologize!?Why the heck did Vienna need to apologize to such an abusive control FREAK! And I agree with one of the above comments, Jake is quite femme in many ways. He's sure hiding something. Vienna doesn't need to grow up, she needs to enjoy being herself and acting her age (which let's all remember that she is young still).
Jake needs to recognize he sucks and actually most people have more respect for Justin (rated R) now than for jake the jerk.
Jake appeared to be a sadistic control freak. Any ass who treats a woman the way he was treating her, deserves to be banned from humanity. Her "interruptions" (if you can call them that) had more to do with not being heard, having any suggestion she made shot down. For little Jakey boy, she was not to question any suggestion (order) that he made. He appeared to be a controlling domineering bastard. No woman wants a plastic fake creep.
He's a egomaniacal jerk. His acting career? Really? Please go home and return to being a pilot. He has some major anger issues and is condesending. I was no fan of Vienna, but she came off ( as weepy and whiny as she can be) much better than Jake. He is a fame whore and his attempt to accuse her of cheating was obviously b.s.
He's a smarmy jerk.
jake is a scary person, and I think can be very dangerous.
Jake claimed he was a commerical pilot. Does this guy even HAVE a job? Remember when he said in the interview on Monday night that he was not going to fly her dog out "on [his] dime"? Cheap jerk. He also left her stuck in L.A. with no car rental. Cheap jerk. He is a dangerous egomaniac who chose the youngest woman he could find, because he assumed he could control her. WRONG, Jake!! Vienna has a good mind and speaks it. Jake is a putz, dangerous, and certainly is not attractive enough to pose nude. OMG Keep your clothes ON, Jake, and GET A JOB!! You're supposed to be a United pilot, you big fraud! (NOW we all understand why you are 32, have a house and money and a career, but canNOT find a wife. NO one can stand you! Go away, Jake.) Since he stopped the physical contact the moment the cameras turned off, I do think he Jake is GAY. He needs a man and cannot pretend for another second that he desires women. Ha!! A fraud.
What is up with all the hatred for Jake? Let's not forget that Vienna has a reputation for being pretty manipulative and two-faced. the whole thing is petty,no one ever knows what goes on behind 4 walls but I can say from experience that the one that usually runs out first with their side of the story as well as constantly pointing fingers,is usually the one with the guilty conscience and has to save their ass.
Fake Pavelka is an as 'ol
What do you call a good looking pilot with lots of money and no girlfriend when he is surrounded by beautiful air hostesses." Someone who has serious mental problems. I hope his movie career crashes and burns ..... unless there is a good part for a gay psycho who loves to hate women. There was one thing though Jake and Vienna had in common - they both loved Jake. Vienna can count her lucky stars she is out of that abusive relationship.
I think that the only reason that Jake and that "horse faced slut" broke up is that Jake didnt "treat her like a princess"as her backwoods daddy told him to. She is the type of person that has to have her hand held all through her life- she is far from perfect- not even close to good- Let's not forget what she did to her x-hubby while he was overseas fighting for our country!!! If Jake had chosen better he would not be in this situation he is in now at least he didnt make the mistake getting her pregnant!!!!!!
Couldn't agree more.
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