tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post3524464352175076331..comments2024-03-10T00:27:01.667-08:00Comments on The Bachelor Insider: Ali Fedotowsky's Bachelorette Blog Week 5Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-87468178585689701442010-06-29T08:07:18.836-07:002010-06-29T08:07:18.836-07:00Ali,
I LOVE the show and everything. You seem ver...Ali, <br />I LOVE the show and everything. You seem very nice, but you need to be careful. Many of these guys dont seem genuine or I think will be different in real life. I think your awesome and I'm not criticizing you at all. Honestly, I think you belong with Kirk! Or maybe Chris L. Sorry, but I dont think Roberto or Ty or especially Frank are right for you. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-8521924624187865652010-06-28T22:26:26.855-07:002010-06-28T22:26:26.855-07:00Ali, if you were my daughter I would tell you that...Ali, if you were my daughter I would tell you that you are making your decisions with the wrong criteria. What you call chemistry is the first blush of a relationship. Chemistry is what you have when things aren't always trips to Iceland and Turkey. If you can't see that Frank is telling you what he knows you want to hear, you don't need to be making these decisions for yourself. Craig was the most genuine guy on the show. He was nice to the other guys and he could've out argued any of them if he had wanted to. He seemed to want you to pick him for being himself, not maneuvering for favor. Love is something that builds over time and connection with things in common. You don't necessarily get love without the work of going through difficulties and coming out the other side. <br /><br />Ask the right questions. Don't ask about things they can schmooze you over; get to the nitty gritty, girl. You are going to come out of this with the wrong guy watching tapes of yourself sending the right guys home. Life with someone isn't about where they live or what they do; it's about who they are and how they would fit into your life and you into theirs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-58261646531299688702010-06-26T10:46:05.046-07:002010-06-26T10:46:05.046-07:00ALi,
Craig called out Justin in the first episodes...ALi,<br />Craig called out Justin in the first episodes. He knew that Justin was a liar, and you feel for it. You let the weather man go..and yet kept Justin? I am thinking that you are maybe way too immature to be making the calls. Seems like you fall for any old line they give you. Wake up and look around. As far as a guy that lost his Mom, it is sad but he seems to talk about this a bit too much. If you were my daughter I would be concerned.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-53847376444464591102010-06-26T10:41:16.956-07:002010-06-26T10:41:16.956-07:00ALi,
if I had to pick a husband for you it would b...ALi,<br />if I had to pick a husband for you it would be Craig the lawyer. I think that he is a great match for you. Roberto scares me because he just seems too good to be true. There has to be some secret flaws there. The fact that he does not think of himself as good looking is a red flag. Even my son says he knows how good looking he is and attracts a lot of attention. Watch out for Roberto. My best guess is that he is interested in acting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-39429592741124558892010-06-26T10:36:25.193-07:002010-06-26T10:36:25.193-07:00ALi,
I do think you and Jake are the right couple....ALi,<br />I do think you and Jake are the right couple. Perhaps you will give him another chance. Remember Jason and Melissa? He found Molly and she found a great husband...so all is well that ends well. I really would love to see you and Jake once again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-44886360747908578002010-06-26T10:33:42.035-07:002010-06-26T10:33:42.035-07:00ALi,
now that Jake is free..will he show up on you...ALi,<br />now that Jake is free..will he show up on your show? He must be feeling pretty down now that Veinna has said the most awful private things about him. He should have never picked her. She was bad news from the start.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-24466513283627165882010-06-24T12:24:19.700-07:002010-06-24T12:24:19.700-07:00Chris L has by far been my favorite since day 1. N...Chris L has by far been my favorite since day 1. Not only is he totally handsome but seems to have his s**t together. I can relate to his mom dying cuz my mom died just a few years ago and thats a huge thing to deal with and be open about. Frank...God love him!!! I think he is great as well. Kirk is a good guy too but my gut says he is probably the one with the girlfriend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-30305912684006651202010-06-23T18:06:18.842-07:002010-06-23T18:06:18.842-07:00Just read your blog for the first time...it was re...Just read your blog for the first time...it was really nice to hear your words on the experiences you had. I have a few favorites on this show, but I have to tell you I am absolutely in love with Ty (too bad he's 20 years my junior and I'm married!!). I know someone who looks just like him, and has the same mannerisms, too. He is very charming and I truly believe would do anything to be there for the woman he loves. I'm just hope Ali, that you will give him a chance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-12164158252550400792010-06-23T14:32:20.365-07:002010-06-23T14:32:20.365-07:00Justin did act immature on that episode. Up until ...Justin did act immature on that episode. Up until now I have not been able to figure out why all the guys disliked him. Seemed so cruel. But after this episode seemed like it was a game to him. A match to win not real. I was very disappointed had been rooting for him. I like Frank and Chris L. Whoever you ended up with Ali, hope it works.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-24514842491222302982010-06-22T18:57:58.941-07:002010-06-22T18:57:58.941-07:00Ali...this is very first season of Bachelor/Bachel...Ali...this is very first season of Bachelor/Bachelorette I've ever watched and I'm hooked. I must say...CHRIS L!!! I'm looking at all of these people's jobs and they say sales or account executive, or retail or something like that. But Chris L. is stable. Yes, he has is own business now, but he has been a math teacher and could return to that profession if need be. There's something to be said for that. Plus, he gave up his job to go be with his dying mother. Not unlike you giving up your job for love...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-26547637430049077392010-06-22T15:41:44.992-07:002010-06-22T15:41:44.992-07:00My goodness Ali! What a journey it's been for ...My goodness Ali! What a journey it's been for you. It's cool to know you blog here. I actually met your friend in Campbell months before we saw you on The Bachelor with Jake. I forgot her name but she works or worked at the Old Pro in PA. She was saying she hasn't talked to you in 4 weeks and was in shock, because you were still there, which was cool. Well, it's interesting to hear about that and now see you on the Bachelorette after all that mess. It's a shame these guys don't really seem to fit you and look kinda douchey or like duds. I'm glad Craig is finally opening up, but I definitely see you with Chris L. He's cute, sweet, a family man, funny, and very charming. Not sure why Chris N was there this long but I guess it's always different behind the scenes. Roberto is definitely gorgeous & charming. I see why you've held onto him this long but I think you're mesmerized by his looks more than anything else. It's kinda pointless to say all these things since you already finished the show but I'm pretty blunt and no I'm not like that ugly Vienna. Bleh! Anyway, I'm looking forward to seeing Justin getting kicked off the show, even though he's Portuguese and cute, he seems kind of cocky & immature. Good luck to you Ali & I hope to see you around sometime in the bay area!Jessica Mhttp://www.myspace.com/jejecacanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2428342743289421532.post-43626645341942846722010-06-22T11:46:10.287-07:002010-06-22T11:46:10.287-07:00Ali - I truly think you should pick Kirk! He seems...Ali - I truly think you should pick Kirk! He seems like an incredible guy, huge heart and definitely not a player. Trust your heart....and just go with it. Definitely, stay away from Justin...not a good selection....very sneaky! Looking forward to next week! <br />CeleneCelenenoreply@blogger.com